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Relationship Corner:BONE TO HIS BONES[love as the door to ant relationship/marriage]
Welcome to this new edition of bone to his bones. In this edition, we shall go back to our almighty formula for divine attraction in your marital. In December’s edition, we stated the formula as;
God is the way, maturity is the handle, love is the door, emotion is the room and patience is the key.
We have talked about God as the way and maturity as the handle. In this edition we shall be talking on ‘LOVE AS THE DOOR’ in entering a relationship.
We all know that marriage is a home. What importance is a house built without a door? As the door is an entry and exit point, so love is the entry and exit point to a relationship. I enter into any relationship via the entry door and if at any time I want to leave, I come out of that relationship via the exit door. You must/should love the person you are going into or are in relationship with. If you don’t love that person, it shows you don’t even know what you wanted and such relationship will not last. However, to love the person is not really enough, but you should also see to it the kind of love you are having towards that person. Perhaps, your own kind of love is a blind love and solely for sex, you are more than a fool. I have come to realize that the computer age have even affected relationship. Love now uses technology, it now uses magnifying and recommended glasses. You should see clearly from your love what you want or don’t want, and know if you can cope with it or not, and love does not simply means sex. I’ve said this before, if love is sex, go and ask the prostitutes that have sex with 10, 20, 30 etc, people per day, if market is elastic, does she love all of them and do all the men she had sex with all loved her? We have abuse love because we don’t know what it entails. LOVE simply means;
L- Lifebelt, O- Optical, V-Viability and E-Emotion.
The lifebelt helps one keeps floating when on water and prevents drowning. The most tragedic period in life is not to be loved and you loving no one. It as if you are a waste. There comes a time in life when you feel like loving someone, resting in his arms and hearing the echoing words of ‘I love you.’ It makes you fulfilled. Though, love is like a lifebelt that makes you enjoy life, it brings tragedy when abused. We should try to use our magnifying glasses patiently to know the kind of love we are into in our relationship, else your relationship will end up zipping the best part of you [especially to the ladies]. Every relationship you enter, especially those for sex making never leaves you the same way it met you, it has zipped some glory out of your life, except God’s mercy locates you.
The optical aspect of love reveals that love sees. It is not blind nor does it have a compound eye like that of a cockroach. The inability to use the optical power of love puts one in the epidemic of heart break disasters.
The viability of love means that love grows, and because it grows, it can die too, and it is a living thing. And because love is a living thing, it hears, speak, act in proportion to what we give it. It responds to stimuli. You might start hating the person you love when your love is stimulated by another evil act from that person and vice versa. However, don’t ever go into any relationship without you first having that love. I will never marry who I don’t love and is not attracted to me and who don’t love me and am not attracted to. It should be vice versa. Is your love growing or dying in that so-called relationship or marriage of yours? Check it!
The emotion which is the seat of love, when hurt, love will be deactivated. When our emotion is hurt by heart breaks, we tend to be afraid of falling in love again. However, because love is as common as water and no matter what we cannot run away from love, we still find ourselves diving towards another so-called-love again.
Such is the story of the Samaritan woman Jesus met at the well, like her many of us rely on trial by error of love. This was the story of the woman in Jon 4:1-26 she had an emotional hurt that even up to the fifth lover, she didn’t trust and free herself from the emotional hurt. When Jesus asked her that question, she instantaneously remembered her emotional heart breaks and became moody.
-----, Jesus said unto her -----, for thou hast had five husbands: and whom thou now hast is not thy husband – John 4:17 & 18.
Perhaps, you are living such a love life, jumping from one lover to another, today, the lord will set you free in Jesus name. what a funny statement, up to five men and of all these five men, she still have no t concluded any to be her husband. Only God knew how many men she would’ve gone for and could have passed through her if not Jesus coming to her aid. Today, by the mercies of God, Jesus will come to your aid concerning your relationship and marital in Jesus name –Amen.
Join me in the next edition as I shall be teaching on the topic ‘Building a true Love in your relationship, ‘is sex a true proof of love?’
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