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WHY MOST MEN ARE UNFAITHFUL ... .

In terms of sexual escapades,men are always innocent...Please I will explain.
Borrowing a leaf from the Holy Bible,two people committed adultery but one person ( woman ) was brought before Jesus Christ for instant capital punishment by the people.
If a man is caught defiling his matrimonial bed,he will be forgiven by his kinsmen instantly even before he asked, but in case of a woman, she will be stigmatised and sent packing from her husband's house.
If a teenage girl gets pregnant unlawfully she will be ruthlesssly dealt with but if it is a teenage boy, the matter will be swept under the carpet.
Any sexual relationship between the two opposite sex,the female is always at risk than the male.
Some religions and customs encourage men to marry more than one wife,the population of women is growing per second than the men.Most women use sex to entice and may be hold their men.
The above facts make some men to become unrepentantly unfaithful to their wives.Is it their fault ?

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Permalink Reply by adeshina a. m. on July 7, 2009 at 7:10am: i will not blame you, because you are a man that is why you speak like that. You wouldn't if you are a woman. Anyway if you stay with the words of god, you will not go astray knowing fully well that you are hurting somebody more especially someone that is loyal to you. Men generally are born cheater and have thrown cautions to the wind.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Achie Bridget on July 8, 2009 at 7:44am: The Nigerian society and the African culture at large believes that a man is a polygamous animal. It is not absurd to hear that a man is married to more than one wife, but it is an abomination for a woman to be married to more than one husband. This is generally an African thing.
But having said that, it is also worthy of note that the African society is highly westernized and civilized at this present time. Also, christianity abhors multiple sexual partners and anyone who fears God should not indulge in anything that goes against the word of God. Even the religions that encourage polygamy do not encourage fornication and adultery. There is a marked difference between polygamy and adultery.
By and large, it is in the best interest of everyone to be faithful to one sexual partner at a time. Whichever way you look at it, it saves everyone concerned alot of trouble!; ▶ Reply to This